Today I went along with a Dementia Champion to a Primary School where I live to deliver a Dementia Friends session.
Oh my word, I was absolutely blown away with the comments the children made when asked questions. Questions such as ‘when memories have gone from recent events, what is left?’ The number of children who said ‘feelings’ was amazing.
They simply get it. You can see their minds working and understanding what they are listening to. They sit quietly, and listen, they write their ideas on what the brain ‘does’ on the brain pictures we give them. At 10 years old they try and think about what memories someone of 70 has. How difficult is that when you have only lived for 10 short years? Things like ‘losing your husband’, and becoming a grandparent.
I am so hopeful for the future when I see and hear the compassion and understanding of children today. They are our future, they are the people who will perhaps be caring for their parents one day.
I am simply in awe of the pupils today of Westlea Primary School in Seaham, County Durham. This is the second time I have been part of Dementia Friends Sessions in schools and I can’t wait to be part of more.
More importantly how wonderful is it that schools are so willing to be involve in becoming part of a Dementia Friendly Community. A lot of adults could learn something from their children I think.
At the end of April I will undertake my own Dementia Champion training so that I am able to take Dementia Friends Session as well and I look forward to that.
I received an email which said one word “Interested?”. It was information about a talk being given at the Derby Women’s Centre about Dementia Friends (find out more here) which is an initiative with the government and Alzheimer’s Society.
Should I go? Then I realised that although I knew about Dementia Friends I didn’t really know what to expect of them so decided this would be a good time to find out.
There were a good mix of people there, and I introduced myself to the speaker. Sorry but I can’t remember her name – I am not good with names, the whole world should start wearing badges with their names on!
She was pleased that I was attending and asked if I minded talking about my own experiences, which of course I didn’t.
What an excellent morning it turned out to be. The talk was tremendously appropriate and informative. I can see why they are so important to be spread across Britain – everyone should have the opportunity in taking part in one.
A Dementia Friend is someone who has learnt what living with Dementia can mean to people. Everybody has a different experience but it is important to treat everyone with the same positiveness of what they can do rather than why you think they can’t do. Never assume someone has less capabilities than they may have.
I was asked lots of questions about how I live with it, and was able to answer about how I experience my own cognitive difficulties. It was great to meet these people and learn about the Derby Women’s Centre. I hope to pop in again sometime.
This was my first time in public talking to strangers about myself living with Alzheimer’s and I think they were surprised because the image is always someone who is elderly and in the later stages of the disease.
How did this make me feel being there?
It was great to learn more about what education is available to everyone regardless of who you are, where you work, age, race or religion. Dementia has no cultural specifics, and how we educate the world should be in the same manner. I felt like I could contribute something positive, and show that life for me good. My glass is half full not half empty! I felt the warmth and interest of the people there and they reached out to me. Lovely 🙂